read this on here today and i haven’t stopped thinking about this quote since (via pluiedem)
- reblogging to source the original quote by inkskinned
Your mother did not raise you with a wolf in your chest so you could howl over losing a man.
Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.
My older sister is supposed to have her baby this weekend but I kinda hope she holds out until Monday. Because that would mean she have birth on Labor Day.